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WISDOM MEETS PROCESS

The book of proverbs in the bible is one that ensures we see how foolish our ways are. It does not shy away from calling us fools and showing us how we ever so clearly express these foolish tendancies in our lives. For today, allow me to spare you the foolish-talk (see what i did here, haha), and let us talk about wisdom.

Allow me to share with you what I have learnt wisdom to be and look like in this journey of life. 'Wisdom is the application of knowledge & understanding of various principles, we learn of in this life.' - Wawa Dictonary. The dictionary definition of wisdom is, 'the ability to use your knowledge and experience to make good decisions and judgments.' Dictionary. I guess they are not too badly off, right? Anyway, various seasons in life shape various ideologies in us. One of the lessons that have been taught to me is that sometimes, the things we learnt in a particular point in life, are not the only things that are there to life. For example, as a child getting my first bicycle was the most top-tier feeling I had and it made me feel so good about it. I did however not know how to fully ride it, so I remember having to use training wheels to start cycling. Then, one day while in primary (read elementary to my US congregants lol) school, I think second grade, my dad bought me my first grown-up bicycle and I was so pumped! I was ready to join the other kids in our estate in races and games because I was now a certified 'big girl now that I had my mountain bicycle. So I remember the following morning, which was a weekend, I woke up so early and made my dad take me out to go ride the bike outside. I remembered what it was like with the other small bike, and I thought it would be no different with this big bike. Dearest reader, was I not wrong. I fell a couple of times, but my dad was encouraging me to keep trying. He then would have me sit on the bike, hold the bike by the seat, then guide me and tell me to pedal and try show me how to balance. And I can promise you by the enxt weekend, I had the hand of EVERYTHING pertaining to my new bike (seems this habit of just being successful with things I commit to has followed through into my adult life, lol).

That experience taught me something I did not fully understand until much later in life. Advancement does not eliminate the need for guidance. New levels demand new skills. Vision alone does not equal readiness. This is where the wisdom of seasons becomes essential. We live in a world that pressures us to rush. We are encouraged to skip steps, bypass growth, and force outcomes simply because we can see where we want to go. But wisdom teaches us that every season has a purpose. Childhood requires dependence. Adolescence requires discovery. Adulthood requires discernment. No season is wasted unless we refuse to learn from it. God designed life this way intentionally. Children need parents not only for survival, but for formation. In the same way, we need guidance in every stage of our lives, whether through God, through wise counsel, through community, or through experience. We were never meant to be the beginning and the end of our own understanding. The wisdom of God allows us to see life clearly and honestly. It reminds us that life is not one dimensional. It invites us to slow down, to listen, to grow in understanding, and to become more compassionate, patient, and human. When we read certain stories in the Bible and wonder how people could make such poor decisions, we often forget that wisdom was missing in those moments. Knowledge alone was not enough.

⁵ If any of you is deficient in wisdom, let him ask of the giving God [Who gives] to everyone liberally and ungrudgingly, without reproaching or faultfinding, and it will be given him. James 1:5 (AMPC)

The book of Proverbs, especially the first chapter, speaks powerfully about the value and necessity of wisdom. It teaches us that wisdom is not optional. It is foundational. As we navigate the various seasons of our lives, it is vital that we allow God to guide us with His wisdom. Sometimes that wisdom comes through Scripture. Sometimes through wise counsel. Sometimes through a sermon, a conversation, or a quiet prompting of the Holy Spirit. We need wisdom for our families, especially when healing is required and emotions are complicated. Wisdom for friendships, to know how to show up well and love consistently. Wisdom in the workplace, to remain grounded in environments that can drain or distort us. Wisdom in relationships, to love well, communicate honestly, and grow together rather than apart.

These are only a few examples. Every area of life requires wisdom because wisdom builds capacity. The understanding we gain in one season strengthens us for the next. It becomes the muscle and momentum we need to face life with courage and clarity. There is wisdom in patience. There is wisdom in process. There is wisdom in allowing yourself to grow fully where you are before reaching for what is next. Well, that is all for today Eternals, till next time. The Lord bless you and cover you all. In case you need someone to pray with you/hold your hand in this moment. Please reach out to us via our contact details or even email us via info@eternityin-amoment.org.